Cecile’s StoryI am a mother of two young children – my daughter is 3 years old and my son is 2 years old. Circle of Security was recommended to me and it arrived in my life at the perfect time. I was ready to find new ways to support my children emotionally, as the ways I was using were not always successful. I could feel I was missing something and that things could be improved. Sometimes I was feeling overwhelmed trying to think of the best way of dealing with conflicts or my children’s disappointments. The course has given me the confidence and some tangible tools to reflect on myself, so I can understand and support my children’s emotions better. The Family Centre facilitators Ashley and Lisa where not judgmental and provided a supportive environment for each of the participants. Their knowledge, experience and the quality of their communication skills were absolutely incredible and enriching. Working in a group was valuable for everyone to be able to share their experiences. They are both highly competent and offer a platform for the parents to observe, reflect, and grow by learning new effective skills to transform. Working in a group is super interesting. As we share our experiences we learn more. This course has changed my life forever, and has definitely taken care of my sanity. Since I have applied what I have learnt I can clearly see some major shifts in my family. I understand my behaviours and my children’s better, and by applying what I learnt the conflicts between my children when they are playing, or personal disappointments are resolving with much less drama. My home is without a doubt more peaceful and I have a deeper understanding of my children’s emotional needs and now possess new effective tools, which makes daily life easier. I spend less time getting disappointed, more time enjoying parenting. |